30 April 2017

Baskom butut Squad

 Baskom Butut Squad!
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
I had missed most of the days in April, I know. But sorry to say that this month is the most hectic month, and i had to go to several places in a glance. Will you forgive me, bloggie? Hihiii
This month is a special month for my most-special-persons-in-my-life. And in this rare occasion, I’d like to introduce my dearest friends who had a huge impact in my life and I never imagine how my school life would like without them. These people gathered inside a house named Baskom Butut (A house with full of joy, laughter, and warmness). So, Hallo, Baskom Butut Squad!


First, let me tell you about the one and only girl in this house. dr.Sussy Listiarsasih, or I used to call her teh Ncus. She was the most dependable one who will take care of the house (from payment things, cleaning, and sometimes cooking). This pretty girl is a doctor! The first time I met her was at pool inside our university, where at that time her brother (who was by chance learnt in the same major with me) celebrated his birthday. All his classmates were trying to throw him to the pool! Hahahaa. And teh Ncus showed up! “What a pretty!” That was my first impression for her. And it continued until the night of that day. I walked to the lobby, waited for her brother and met her again who brought a cake with her boyfriend. (And you know? I knew that boyfriend of hers! but now her x bf) Hahahaa.
The second meeting, was when Ardi (another baskom butut squad) invited me to come along with him to go to West Lake. He said that he will join teteh’s celebration for her bachelor graduation. Well, I went with him and when we arrived, I realized that there was a big family there!! And teteh was soooo pretty in her gold dress! I remember that we took a picture together, and met her mom, her dad, and her little sister for the first time. It was really nice, because since that time I didin’t know how could I keep getting along with her until now. And yes!!! This month is a big day for her. She got married on 24th of April 2017 with her beloved one for sure! A Lingga. What a lucky bride and groom! And again! Teteh never failed to be pretty in her white traditional lace blouse and white-pink wedding gown! I believe that it’s very relieved to have our name and our beloved one written on the same line of destiny called Lauh Mahfuzh. Congratulation teh! Eventhough I didn’t get to create many pictures with you, but you know for sure that I’m happy for you, right?
An independent, nice, warmhearted, and loving girl like you must be happy forever! Thank you for our times teh. Thank you for always staying by my side, for always being there when the things could break me down, and choosing to be my best listener instead! I love you tetehh to the moon and back! Let me know if someone hurt you, I will punch them in the face !!!!! :)


Let’s meet with our second one! His name is Muhammad Ghozy Abdussalam. Just call him A oo! He is the coolest man you will see at the first sight. But then you will know that he is the most fragile man ever! It’s always been a funny thing if I tell you our first meeting story. He will be mad and maybe pinch me until my skin is peeling off? Iuuuhhh *scary. Hmm well, what I think about him? I can’t deny that he is so smart and diligent. But I’ve ever heard from his friends who took the same class with him that he was a bit stingy especially when it came to the examination time. Some of them will asked him things, but he will say ‘I haven’t study yet”. Yet in the end, he always got a good score. Hahaa (don’t get mad A oo, pleaseee). Alsooo, he is super funny. I don’t know exactly why, but every jokes that he brought always blew my laugh. We used to have a long chatting, and along with Audit, in every English class (PPB), three of us will sit together and point each other to answer Mr.Reko's questions. Hahaaa. And he is also a severe bully, really likes and enjoy to intimidate someone weaker like me. But, If he got turn to be bullied, he will immediately pouted. How unfair, right? Wleeeeeee.  He used to be a playboy, perhaps. Yet however do you know what’s even happier? Now, he is a daddy wanna be! He got married in last December and currently, his wife is pregnant for almost 4 months. Please everyone gives your du’as for my friend’s wife to be always healthy and everything will run smoothly as they planned. Happy to hear that, isn’t it? Even with that fragile and funny personality, he still a responsible man. And I know you will be a good father A oo! J


Our third personil’s name is Ardi Luthfi Kautsar, or Ardi. When you meet him, you will directly guess that he likes eating very much. Yes! That’s correct, haha. But you need to know him closer and he will serve you many tasty foods! Yeayy!. Our first meeting was at university orientation. He ever said that he had a bad impression when he met me for the first time. Omg! Am I that ugly? Or am I that scary? Huhuuu. That was very rude way of you to greet people right? Hehee. We were at the same class since the first semester until third semester. And we gathered again at our master class, right?. All I know about him, he is very playful, very Sundanese (remember when everyone was always making fun of sundanese people by saying “a lot op feofle” because they were inspired from you??) Hahaaaa. To be honest, it is normal for sundanese people who barely use ‘F’ in their daily conversation. But we had improved a lot! Right, ardi? We had been fully qualified for being a Sundanese British native, wkwkwkk. Also, he is a nice man and I used to asked him for helps, and he will try his best to help! Thank you di, I learnt to cook from him too even I often got scolded when I did a wrong step in cooking. He was such a main chef in baskom butut before teteh and others.
Last month, he bravely tied a commitment with his girlfriend and inshaallah will celebrate the wedding in the last month of this year. Eh? Or next year? I’m not sure but whenever it is, I will always cheer and support you both for your happiness. May Allah always give you guys his blessings until the Day and so on, amiinn. J


Next is the only Thailand man in Baskom Butut Squad. His name is Mushrifudeen but you can call him Udin. He was a diligent student. Can you imagine if you come from another country and you live in Indonesia where the language is not always understandable even if you have understand for a bit?. Survival is for the fittest. I think he was one of the example on it. Not all literatures that we found at university used English version. I thought Udin has to translate it back and forth until he could do his tasks or his thesis, perhaps. And adapted in foreign country was not easy at first. So, i think he already used to struggle and adapt with the situation, especially in the house where most of personil are Sundanese! Hahaaa So, he learnt a bit about Sundanese language too (even for a bad one). If you meet him, you will find that he has calm and friendly personality. Sometimes he turned to be innocent man where the men sorround him were brutal, hahaha. Because he came from Thailand, I always blabbered unclear things as long as it sounds like Thailand accent. Maybe that was because an impact from ‘crazy little things called love’ movie, where Mario Maurer (one Thai actor that I like) played in that movie. Udin will only raise his eyebrows like he was saying “What are you trying to say, della??” Hahahahahaaa.
Currently, he is working in Malaysia after finished his master degree in Yogyakarta. I haven’t heard anything again from him. But I hope Udin will always fine wherever he is, amin.


And the forth man in Baskom Butut Squad is Fahri Rizal. Let’s call him Fahri. You may say that he is Ghozy’s playmates? If you find them together, I couldn’t guarantee that they are 100% real men. Haha. It was always funny to see them, though. I can say that both of Fahri and Ghozy used to utilize their ‘good-looking’ weapon to fool the girls? (maybe). But I know everything has changed, for sure. You guys had improved so much and had matured enough to take a decision, correct?. Just like other, fahri also very diligent. He is smart eventhough at class some people often got annoyed by him because he usually asked too many questions to the lecturer and made the time felt much longer than it should be. Wkwkwkk. That’s okay actually, it just a nature of him.
Next month! He will follow teh Ncus’s step to tie the knot with a girl that he wishes will become his longlast partner in dunya and akhirat, amiiinn. I wish the best for you Fahri! May Allah always give you an ease. Inshaallah.


Next, I have Gesta F Nurbiansyah, or just call it A biyan. I forgot when was our first meeting a? Could you help me answer that? Haha, whatever! This is another alien man who was very chill and often bullied me wherever and whenever we met. You guys can’t stop him when he started to bully someone. The more you try to respond him, the more you feel that you bite your own heart. Hahaaa. So, when he tried to bully you, just shut your mouth, ignore him and keep silent until you pushed his feeling to the corner because no one cares! Or you can put a sallen expression until he felt guilty. (kidding A!). He is an easy-going person, maybe because he used to go to imigration office back and forth from our university (And it almost everyday) as part of his works, that made him easy-going? Hehee, I'm not sure. He is also funny! and he was the one who may used his power to influence the boss in IRO (from what he said, isn't he so sweet?) and supported me until I could make it! (stepped European land!!). All thanks to you a! You are T.O.P! Currently, he is studying in Turkiye! He left his beloved one just like Rangga who left Cinta behind. Perhaps he believes that if they are meant to be together, love will always find its way back. *Tsaaaaahhh (Even after hundreds of full moon?). Aha! I like one of Turkish actor named Sercan Cayoglu a! Please if it possible, make to meet him for me. And ask him to make a video by saying my name and tell him that I'm a big fan of him from Indonesia, wkwkwk ! okay a?
Anyway, goodluck for your study a! If you decide to move to Turkish girl, I just want to suggest you to clear the things with the girl you left kindly, don't be ever make yourself regret! All the best for you a biyaannn! See you again :)


Hallo Satrio Pringgo Sejati! One of the most impressive friends of mine. He always determined in his each goals. Even he is a bit sensitive tough. So, if you meet him, please do talk to him softly. Don’t ever say something harshly or he will pout straightaway and he won’t like you in the end. In his point of view, the one and only perfect girl who could talk and understand him perfectly is his gf! He has a clever, calm, and mature image, but you couldn’t absolutely imagine how spoiled and childish he was in front of his girlfriend. I remember the time when he was sick and by chance I came to Baskom Butut house and saw him lying in front of TV weakly. I felt pity and asked him if he needed something. Yet, he just shaked his head and said “No, I’m okay thank you, eya”. I didn’t believe him, for sure. I got persistent and I kept asking him for what he needed with a higher tone that in the end made him felt resentful instead. Hehee. But when his softly-wifey-to-be came, he became another alien whom I didn’t know and didn’t want to know, completely changing! Spoiled and childish! Wleee, haha. However, he cares a lot about his friends, he never hesitate to try something new. (Helped a market seller by buying all the shoes and sell it again with a lower cost, his head was full of creativity to create and sell things from his experiment, he loves to involve in many events!). Then, he is the best one to find when you need good movie references!! Yeay. Currently he is working at university, and from what I heard from our last meeting, he is planning to continue his study (doctoral program)! Waaawww, bismillah Sat! Inshaallah Allah will make it easier for every good intention!


Let’s meet our junior one! Ergi Fathurrahman. The most creative person i’ve ever met! You will appraise him as very manageable person since the first time you meet him. He planned his future very well rather than me. The courage that he had was always inspiring. He is a cousin from a friend of mine. The first time I met him was at his previous rented house in Yogyakarta. He was in the same major with me and others. A year behind me but always feels like a year ahead of me. Probably because he is more mature than me? Oh no. But the fact shows it. I was the one who always whining and coming to him for unproductive chatting, wkwkwkk. However, it really nice to having someone like him in the circle of your school life. Listen to what will he become was always exciting, he will keep blabbing on this and that explaining the way he will do in reaching his dreams. Also, he was very critical in criticizing things. Became a good partner for his cousin inside the excitement of watching football match and arguing things. I remember when it got me sick hearing both of them inside the car argued on the two of Presidential candidate of Indonesia. One of them supported Jokowi, and the other one gave his voice for Prabowo. Hffftttt, let's say that you felt like in the middle of the real Presidential debate. Hahaa. Well, currently he is in the middle of his effort in pursuing his dream. I wish you bunch of luck A! May Allah always showering you by his blessings and loves! Aminn :)  


Last but not least. let me introduce someone that always made my day! Dwi Auditya Muttaqin, or Audit, or Adit, whatever. Honestly, I can't really find the words to explain about him, but I'll try. Hmm, anyone who knew him would know that he is full of kindness. He loves to honoring guests and friends. Makes everyone comfortable being with him. Though he often becomes forgetful (easy to forget something, both important or less). He is good at maintaining relationship with people, and yes! easily having a long chit chat with strangers too. It means that he's friendly to everyone like he doesn't have any insecurities in him. Well, everyone has it for sure, but insecurity is something we may not notice. So, I was always wondering what kind of insecurities he had? Hehe. 
He is super busy person and hard worker, I know. When you are with him, you will find that his phone will never stop ringing. There was always be something that he needs to take care about. Hffftt.. And be careful, he acted reckless sometimes, and made everyone worries and panic so sudden! I think he has his half introvert personality.  He's not good at expressing his true feeling and doesn't like to talk about his personal life too much. Oya! He loves that football team so much! Persib and Madrid. You can't disturb him, even for a while when the match started. So, if you meet him, you know how to get along with him, right? :)
We were classmate just like others. But I didn't know exactly when we started getting close?. All I know, we are very different in many ways. But I hope that what will make us stronger. He taught me things, opened my eyes to not to be weak among my doubts, insecurities, and skepticism inside society's point of view. He was chill and mean sometimes because what he said always got me through to the core. Hahaaa. It hurts me like nuts but I know I always learn something and getting wiser. And I realized I should be thankful for it. Today is his day! I can't congratulate him in the face, but I know Allah will always deliver all my prays. Barakallah fiik, ujang! I hope you will always be there with full of healthy, happiness, affections, and blessings. May Allah always ease your each and every steps in reaching your dreams. And you always surrounded by people that make your laugh louder, your smile bigger, your faith stronger, and your life better, Aminn InsyaAllah! :)    


  
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31 March 2017

313

Assalamualaikum everyone!
         I guess the last day in March will end perfectly, but it seems most of us are feeling hampered by the situation. While I'm trying to make my self busy, my country turned out to be busy too. This morning, I saw the news and I didn't know how to react. Sympathy? Passionate? Or sad?
          I know exactly that religion issue is always be a crucial, holy, and very sensitive. Especially when we try to hook it with Politics. Both of politics and religion played an important role in running the state. No wonder if the state only walks straight for its desire without politics and religion, everything else is absolutely a distraction.
         My country, Indonesia is one of places where diversity is a possible thing to be realized through the presence of integrity, tolerance, trust, and will to protect each other. Hence, differences are not something to be feared, shunned, or made obvious. Otherwise, the difference must be something strengthening, and escalating our mindset.
         Whatever, now I'm talking about the demonstration that just happened today. About hundred Muslim people rallied their will to gather in Istiqlal Mosque, Jakarta then walked with flocks to the President Palace. This incident actually not happened for the first time. It's like a continuation from 411 and 212 peace action in 2016. The demonstration was substantively led to Mr Ahok (Current Jakarta's governor) case, again. As we might already knew. He is a suspect for Islam blasphemy case, but he still served as a governor. The humiliation that he did over Al-maidah letter verse 51 in Al-qur'an was definitely wrong and it breaks every Muslim people's heart for sure. Hence, he got many disrespectful trait, mockery, and disappointment from some of Muslim society.
         However, what the people demand through this demontration was addressed to our President, Mr Jokowi. There were two things that the demonstrants asked. First is to humbly asked Mr Jokowi to ofiicially knock off his position as Jakarta governor. Then second is to fasten the process of Mr Ahok punishment. Honestly, it breaks my heart too watching some Muslim people held the demonstration (again) even perhaps they called it as a peace action. You know, it just feels fear, anxious, afraid of something bad that might happened, worried of making the problem even bigger and even create the rift among religious societies. 
Yet, they still did it. 
          In my point, it is better for those who followed demonstration to take another way. Serious-blowing-conversation through dialogs might be a better option for the people to spill out the demands and aspirations. And by seeing this recurring actions, Mr President also needs to make a decision by considering the people demand. If the people have to wait, explain why and give understanding. If Mr Ahok can't be punished, explain again why with clear elucidation. 
         Even personally, i know it might be hard to make Mr Ahok step down from his position because his another status as a suspect hasn't be a compelling reason unless the penalty from the court has been officially imposed. Yet, what I haven't understand yet is the rationality and its legal perspective on blasphemy case. If it's so wrong, then follow-up with an appropriate legal and punishment more sprightly and objectively. If it's not so wrong, explain. Because some people don't understand, what they know is only the fact that Mr Ahok has done something inappropriate that hurts most of Muslim's heart.
well, i hope this case can find its ending soon. I trust my country and its responsible government workers, so show us the best, give us the fairest solution that could calm people's heart.


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25 March 2017

Selamat malam, Tuan

Selamat malam, tuan.
Entah kan kutunjukkan pada siapa.
Entah pada kamu, atau bukan.
Sebab aku pun tak pasti.
Kamu masih menjadi rahasia-Nya.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Siapapun engkau, kuharap takkan pernah berhenti mendoakanku.
Sebab aku pun berlaku sama disini.
Semoga engkau selalu dalam lindungannya.
Hingga satu masa kita dipertemukan.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Setiap hari, kan ku songsong agar jadi lebih baik.
Agar tak ada lagi rasa sesal.
Masa laluku mungkin tak dapat kuubah, begitu adanya.
Namun tentu, masa depanku takkan kubiarkan berjalan tanpa ridho dari-Nya.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Aku memang jauh dari sempurna.
Namun aku tak boleh berdiam diri saja, melewatkan segala usaha untuk sempurna.
Setidaknya, untuk membuat ibadahku sempurna.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Jika aku datang terlambat, tunggu aku sebentar lagi.
Sebab berbenah diri dan hati tak selalu mudah.
Namun aku pasti akan berusaha berlari.
Mengejar langkah tuan agar dapat beriringan.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Aku tak perlu romansa bak jutaan pasangan diluar sana.
Tak perlu pula rentetan kata penuh harap namun tak pasti.
Aku hanya ingin berbagi payung, sudikah?
Agar hujan tak buat terlalu basah, dan tetap teduh saat terik mentari datang terlalu pekat.
Agar sedih tak berlebih pun bahagia tak jadi takabur.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Ahhh.. Aku bicara terlalu banyak.
Esok, semoga masih menjadi milikku.
Sebab aku kadang terlupa akan jodoh yang pasti datang bila selalu memikirkan tuan.
Kematian.

Selamat malam, tuan.
Aku sungguh berharap kita dapat bertatap muka, merajut kisah sampai beruban.
Berdoalah, percayalah, Ia sudah membuat skenario terbaik untukku dan tuan, inshaallah.

Selamat malam, tuan.

#mysaturdaynightbelike
#happywriting



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19 March 2017

Adulthood

Have you ever felt like the world was turning away? I think all adults must have felt it even for once.
And I wonder why adults are given this kind of sense, while I think the fairytale and its happiness-ever-after was real.
However, everyone who on the same age like me is currently stepping on this phase. Welcome to adulthood! The time of life when someone has regarded as independent, mature, and brave enough to take responsibility on every actions that he/she does. Sounds creepy but this is real.
Unlike childhood, having faith on the fairytale, huge castle, prince charming white horse, magic, pixy dust and things were allowed. Shaped those lies inside little me made me grows with that faith. And maybe not only me. I was wondering what my future looks like? Will it bloom like a gigantic rose? or will it just stay the same like the grass?
We do choose our faith. But sometimes faith becomes a funny thing. It turns up when you don't expect anything, but turns you down when you really expect a thing. And it applies to people for sure. Once in a while, people will surprise you even people also can take your breath away.. This is how adulthood works. 
The pain you feel, the ignorance you get, the pressure you bear are the color to your life. We build the future in a real life, not a future in the fairytale. Even those fairy tale might affect people when they grew up, but in adulthood, one day you'll realize that fairy tale maybe slightly different than you dreamed of. It may not a castle or a prince charming with his white horse, and it's not important to be happy ever-after. The thing that we will realize  is to do the best in every corner of our lives. 
It might hard to make everyone happy, because everything you do will be judged. Therefore, adulthood teachs you how to do everything that will ease your heart with those responsibility things. If you find that life is hard already, why do we bring more troubledown on ourselves by thinking unnecessary things?
Maybe because we just like the pain? or we just couldn't feel real? 
That is why, like what benjamin franklin meant, that knowing is better than wondering, waking is better than sleeping, and that even the biggest failure, the worst, the most intractable mistake, the beast is the hell out of never trying!
I should finally understand that even my fairytale was a lie, my reality must be greater even with a thousand burdens, obstacles, pains, and complaints. Because you know what, we have Allah, and when we do, everything will be easier, InshaAllah..

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14 March 2017

Waiting for the dusk

Assalamualaikum, may Allah always bless your days..
Now, I think I'm in my mood to write something. So, this would be another chit-chat time!!
Today I should have taught 4 classes, it means around 8-9 hours in total. One class in the morning, two classes in the afternoon, and the last class is in the evening. My morning class was so delightful. I found my student got everything that I was trying to deliver. If not, she will asked me to repeat until she understood and got very excited. Alhamdulillah. What makes me even more happy was not only because of her ability to catch up fast, but also because of her personality trait that step by step is going more open in talking things. I like when the students are starting to see me as their friends!
Then, my second class actually came from a flock of people from magazine company. Each of them is older than me! The first time I stood in front of them, I just felt sooo discriminated, soo powerless, and inconfident. Yet, as time passed, I saw that they are not scary at all. Hahaha. In every class I took, we even shared lot of things! Maybe because most of them are married men and women, so the athmosphere was very warm and family-oriented. So I think I learnt a lot from them. And do you know what is even more exciting? When I talked to them about my amateur hobby in writing, they suggested me to send those scripts to their company rather than to keep them inside my laptop! They are definitely right, aren't they? I promise then, starting right now I will be more attempted in writing good things!!!!! Bismillaaaah
Besides, I have senior high school boy in my third class. But today, he was absent because he had a national olimpiade at his school. So proud of him! I wish him the best in everything, aminn.
So this is it, I'm still stuck at class while waiting for the dusk and another class. But oops! I think my last class in the evening will be starting soon. bye bye  for now, thenn!

Wassalamualaikum..

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12 March 2017

Prophetic Parenting 3

Assalamualaikum ! Welcome back di ceritanya Prophetic Parenting .. Inshaallah kali ini saya mau cerita content dari buku yang manfaat sekali, khususnya buat saya sendiri nih. 
Nah, buku ini ternyata juga mengupas hal-hal yang paling baik untuk dimiliki seorang pendidik lho. Kalau kalian belum punya anak, dan memang berprofesi sebagai guru atau tenaga pengajar, pembahasan kali ini boleh lho disimak. (meski tentunya semua orang nantinya bisa berkesempatan jadi seorang pendidik ya..)

Well, yang namanya mengajar tentunya not as easy as it heard yah. Pasti ada resiko, tantangan, target-target yang perlu dicapai, dan ada juga tanggung jawabnya. Personally, saya juga lagi belajar jadi seorang pendidik yang baik, yang tentu saja harus bertanggung jawab sama apa yang sudah dimulai. Menurut buku ini, ada beberapa hal dan juga karakter yang kalau si pendidik miliki, inshaallah akan mempermudah ia dalam melakukan tugas-tugasnya. Kesempurnaan manusia memang hanya dimiliki oleh para rasul alayhimussalam, tetapi bukan berarti kita menerima begitu saja sifat manusia ini. Setiap orang diperbolehkan untuk selalu berusaha sekuat tenaga untuk terus melatih diri menjadi manusia yang memiliki akhlak baik. Sehingga alangkah baiknya jika nantinya peran seorang pendidik yang baik dapat terus dicontoh oleh generasi-generasi berikutnya, inshaallah amiinn yaa..

Okay, hal pertama yang harus diperhatikan oleh seorang pendidik adalah sifat tenang dan tidak terburu-buru. Sudah sering kan merasakan akibat dari sifat terburu-buru? Saya pribadi sering sekali menyepelekan waktu sehingga ujungnya jadi terburu-buru. Hasilnya? tentu saja tidak maksimal, bahkan gemas sendiri karena tak satisfied. Jadi sudah sepatutnya untuk memilah hal-hal yang jadi prioritas dan tidak menunda-nunda! *noteformyself.
Hal kedua yang hendaknya dimiliki seorang pendidik adalah sifat lembut dan tidak kasar. Not to be a killer, but to be a wiser. Dulu, sempat sih kepikiran kalau suatu saat jadi guru maunya jadi guru killer. Well, iya kalau killer bisa kasih manfaat positif sama anak didik, tapi kalau ternyata malah buat anak didik takut tanpa memberi manfaat? Failed sudah. Karena hakikatnya, kekasaran sering menimbulkan kerusakan, dan Allah SWT pun tidak suka kekasaran. Seperti hadits yang diriwayatkan oleh Muslim dari Aisyah RA: " Sesungguhnya Allah Maha lembut dan menyukai kelembutan. Dia memberi atas kelembutan apa yang tidak Dia beri atas kekasaran dan lainnya."
Hal ketiga adalah memiliki hati yang penyayang. Bak seorang ibu terhadap anaknya, seorang pendidik harus memiliki sifat penyayang dan tidak mendiskriminasi. Bukan hanya kepada keluarga, dan teman saja. Tetapi Rasulullah pun bersabda untuk menyayangi semua umat. Karena sesungguhnya, tidak akan masuk surga selain orang-orang yang penyayang.
Hal yang keempat adalah memilih yang termudah selama bukan termasuk dosa. Dalam mendidik, tentu saja banyak halang-rintangnya. Suatu saat kita dihadapkan pada beberapa pilihan yang memusingkan dan kadang bikin galau. Nah, saat kondisi itu tiba Rasulullah sangat menyarankan kita untuk memilih hal yang paling mudah selama hal itu tidak dosa. Tetapi, saat hal yang paling mudah itu adalah dosa, maka jauhilah sejauh-jauhnya.
Hal kelima yang harus dimiliki seorang pendidik adalah sikap toleransi. Disini, perlu sangat amat kita saring persepsi dan perspektif kita terhadap suatu kondisi yang dihadapi. Karena pada dasarnya, kita harus memahami arti dari toleransi itu sendiri. Yaitu kemampuan untuk memahami orang lain dalam bentuk yang optimal, yang artinya tidak close minded yaa, yang cenderung menimbulkan pandangan hina atau lemah, tetapi harus open minded, sehingga memunculkan pandangan yang selalu positif. 
Hal yang keenam adalah menjauhkan diri dari amarah. Dalam hal ini, mungkin kita sering menemukan orang dengan karakter yang berbeda beda. Terlebih lagi dalam menghadapi anak-anak atau bahkan dalam kehidupan bermasyarakat. Seringkali banyak tingkah laku orang-orang yang membuat kita jengkel dan ingin meluap-luap. Tapi sebagai seorang pendidik, kita harus pintar-pintar meredam amarah, atau menguasai amarah, dan hendaknya mengusir amarah tersebut dengan sifat ikhlas dan memaafkan.
Hal ketujuh adalah sikap seimbang dan proporsional. Mencontoh terhadap sikap Rasul yang selalu seimbang dan proporsional dalam urusan tiang agama, kita pun sebagai pengikutnya sudah sebaiknya dapat mengaplikasikan sikap tersebut pada urusan hidup lainnya. Dalam mengajar dan mendidik, bersikap ekstrim merupakan sifat yang tercela, maka dari itu menakar porsi pembelajaran dan bersikap secukupnya itu lebih baik. Ingat kan? Innallaha Laa yuhibbul mushrifuun.. Sesungguhnya Allah tidak menyukai orang yang berlebih-lebihan.
Hal terakhir yang harus diperhatikan adalah selingan dalam memberi nasihat.Terkadang kita terlalu asik memberikan nasihat kepada orang lain. Sampai lupa untuk melihat dari sudut pandang mereka. Karena ternyata, seringkali berbicara terlalu banyak itu tidak memberikan hasil apa-apa. Sedangkan, memberikan nasihat yang baik dengan jarang justru seringkali menghasilkan sesuatu yang besar atas izin Allah SWT, inshaallah..

Andddd That's all! Sekian untuk hari inii, semoga bermanfaat dan bisa terus diamalkan, amiin.
إِنَّ اللَّهَ رَفِيقٌ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ وَيُعْطِي عَلَى الرِّفْقِ مَا لَا يُعْطِي عَلَى الْعُنْفِ - See more at: http://www.voa-islam.com/read/aqidah/2010/09/28/10431/berlaku-lembutlah-sesungguhnya-allah-menyukai-kelemahlembutan/#sthash.yvG6ooDd.dpuf
إِنَّ اللَّهَ رَفِيقٌ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ وَيُعْطِي عَلَى الرِّفْقِ مَا لَا يُعْطِي عَلَى الْعُنْفِ - See more at: http://www.voa-islam.com/read/aqidah/2010/09/28/10431/berlaku-lembutlah-sesungguhnya-allah-menyukai-kelemahlembutan/#sthash.yvG6ooDd.dpuf
إِنَّ اللَّهَ رَفِيقٌ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ وَيُعْطِي عَلَى الرِّفْقِ مَا لَا يُعْطِي عَلَى الْعُنْفِ - See more at: http://www.voa-islam.com/read/aqidah/2010/09/28/10431/berlaku-lembutlah-sesungguhnya-allah-menyukai-kelemahlembutan/#sthash.yvG6ooDd.dpuf
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7 March 2017

Learn from the Past

Assalamualaikum..
      Hope everyone is doing fine. This blog always shows the inconsistency of mine in writting. What ashamed, hffftttt. Thanks to my small pieces of work that makes me boring sometimes and then triggers me to start thinking to write and turning on the comp.
Bismillah, I don’t know whether I deserve to say something like what i’m going to say now or not. I just feel like it, nothing deeper. This is just a story of the past that I won’t forget because i know i will be able to learn from my past.
       Being a teacher was something that I would avoid hardly before. What I wanted to be since I was young and immature (I’m not saying that today I’ve been mature enough, but slightly a bit wiser enough to appreciate life than before, hihi) was soooo far away from what I’ve been today.  I never thought that I would jump to this kind of situation before. Having no choices, dragging in to the trap, but alhamdulillah that I made this step. At moments ago, I wish to become an architect. Drawing future house, having particular projects with lucrative vision and making people’s dream comes true. However I realized that my happiness in solving senior high school’s physics subject was not enough to become an architect. It was because I just could not draw. In the past, I always wonder why I never been succeeded making a straight line, but then i knew that I got my eyes cylinder. That was why I always made a terribly straight line. Yes! What i did from that time was to give up. Actually I hate that side of my self, giving up easily while I should be a fighter instead. Find ways to combat and counter attack that little cylinder also practice to draw. But whatever it was, I just did nothing. I hope everyone here will never does the same thing. Indeed, I was regretting my decision back then to giving up as an architect. Yet, I never regret to take another move which brought me to meet a lot of precious persons. Thanks Allah I chose this way.
       Enrolled to one of the best majors in my university was a pride. Hi, I was an international relation student. What I wanted to be was to become a practitioner. Standing proudly, speaking loudly, living greatly, and others. Yet again, there was a time when an unexpected turns of life coming. The more I get to know, the more I get doubt to be practitioner. That part of process was the one that leads me to take this step, decided to prefer living as an academician.
       Here I am, currently I’m staying back in my home town. A small town where International Relation studies is not available here. My precious mom and dad need me much here. Perhaps they miss their little daughter who grows this fast? Hihii. At least, wherever I am, I believe that Allah always has a better plan. I believe that I will keep changing into a better one wherever it is. I believe when we have Allah, there are nothing that should be afraid of. Allah has his own way of testing and helping his servant!
        And here No International Relation studies, doesn’t mean that I can do nothing. From here, I think I am starting to build my new hobby, Donate. Not materially, but i hope becoming a teacher can be my way to always donate sincerely lillahita’alaa. About what I knew, what I’ve been through, what I got, anything.  Sharing few experiences of mine to others hopefully inspiring my students to be better than me. No more give up, start from small thing, have faith, keep on praying, and finish what you start. At some point, it might okay to give up, but then get back to Allah, beg him! And inshaallah help will be on its way. Amiiinn
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